Mote/Beam & Glass House/Stones

It is amazing how judgmental some people are, and RPigM is no exception.

What is really exceptional is that the critiques that he launches at anyone within firing range are a mirror image of his own flaws.

His "best friend from HS" that "only comes around when he wants something" and "who never calls, never writes"? That is exactly what I've seen from RPigM - when he doesn't need something from someone, he stays out of touch and off the radar. (Trust me, he gets the voicemails, texts, and emails, he just ignores them.)

His son's ex-girlfriend who is "fat"? Her BMI was much lower than his was, even several years ago before he put on weight.

His hairdresser who "screwed up my hair color" and "doesn't know what she's doing"? Well, if he hadn't been so busy using a home product to cover your grey in an attempt to appear younger, his hair would NOT have turned a purplish-blue color so that he needed her help. For that matter, I had to listen and watch after every hair cut as he continuously complained that she "did a bad job".

The way his sister(s) treat their parents? According to him, his sister(s) don't look out for the best interest of his parents and only do what is convenient for them. Yet the language and manner of talking that I witnessed him using on a daily basis was downright abusive. Demanding, threatening, and overall inappropriate. I never saw that from either of his sisters - they were always polite and deferential to their parents.

Some of his parting shots at me were way out of line. "You never cook," and "You never clean" were actually a direct reflection of his actions in recent months. Those of you who know me realize that I "never stopped doing work" (the words of multiple friends of his) around the house, until things were squared away. Even his own mother would tell me to sit down and not work so much.

A wise friend tells me often, be careful pointing that finger, because it will turn around and point right back at you.

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